Wellbeing activities for children

        
Wellbeing activities for children

The benefits of mindfulness on wellbeing have long been discussed in blogs, news articles and research papers, and to date, mindfulness in day-to-day working results in stress levels dropping, sleep quality improving, and pain dropping. Clearly adults benefit from mindfulness for wellbeing.  But why wait until you “need” it – why not get into those practices now?  By introducing its practical applications and techniques, especially to children, it can help them build resilience to cope and to succeed within an increasingly demanding world, laying stronger foundations for emotional and mental fitness through life.

The following are simple activities adapted from my Mindfulness workshops – and specifically aimed at children that help them to accept, manage and express their emotions in a healthy manner. 

1. Create a Calm Kit

A calm kit is a great way to teach children at any age ways to self-soothe in a healthy manner.  A “Calm Kit” is a little box or bag of activities or things which can help children release or manage stress.

  • Find a little box or a bag – something that can be personalised or decorated
  • Discuss with your child what will help them feel calm when they are experiencing big emotions.

Some tips:

  1. Some children are able to learn “paced breathing” so a card which reminds them to take a deep breath in for 3, hold for 2 and out for 3 can be enough; others may need something practical to help them – so a bottle of aa7717d5949a973e14de43f0396f7d84.jpgbubbles encourages them to breathe in a paced manner without thinking about it.
  2. If you are not comfortable expressing how you feel directly, or perhaps you do not have the words – include a notepad and pen.  This will allow you to write or draw your feelings.  It is also a good way to engage in something calming such as drawing a picture which can also lower stress levels; or somewhere to write down creative ideas.
  3. If you like to have something to do with your hands, including a “fidget toy” or a “stress ball” can help keep your hands occupied.  This is sometimes found to assist children who struggle with sitting still in class – having a “wobble cushion” or a “fiddle toy” which is allowed by the teacher enables them to self soothe while remaining within school-wide rules.
  4. Having a fan can also help you to (literally) cool down as one’s temperature often rises when we get stressed.  If a breath of fresh air is not possible due to environment, a fan is an excellent option.
  5. A little checklist can also be helpful – perhaps this includes as series of “kind words” to use; or a reminder to “breathe deeply” when you recognise that you are getting stressed.
  6. The “Calm kit” is individual to each person, and you might find it is something that you can do together – and talk about what you both include in there.  (My adult clients tend to include a packet 99a0ade9384c9d4581dd26e38a06e4e8.jpgof tea).
  7. The use of the “Calm Kit” in both school and at home can be a helpful collaboration between school and family for the child, and in both cases you are using what you know to work.

2. Teach yourself to recognise signs of stress

This is a very simple exercise – and again one which you can do together – in order to recognise the signs of stress (and when to use your Calm Kit!)

  1. Think of a time when you were angry at someone – and recognise where in your body you feel those sensations.  As a parent observing, you may notice twitches or movements perhaps a clenched fist or a tapping foot.   
  2. Identify what those sensations were, where they were and how they felt, and discuss how when you recognise those feelings, that is a good time to ask to use your Calm kit.
  3. “Cool down” from this exercise by thinking of a time you felt loved and safe and recognising where you feel those sensations.

3. Gratitude Stretching

A lovely way to think positively, as well as give your body a little bit of TLC. 

  • Stretch your arms and think of someone you are really happy to have in your life.
  • Stretch your legs and think of something you are grateful to have
  • Shake out and think about what you are really looking forward to doing today.

4. Singing together

Singing raises the production of oxytocin (a happy hormone) and in turn lowers the presence and production of cortisol (the stress hormone).  It teaches rhythm, listening, as well as timing, and is also a fun activity to do together.  You may even discover some growing talents.

5. What I love about me/you

This is a lovely way to feel positive about yourself and a fun way to connect with friends.  You can use post-its, or perhaps cut out some stars, or pretty shapes and on each write on thing you love about yourself, or are proud of.  You can do the same for our friends and family and let them know either by showing them online, or perhaps even posting it to them.  It’s a way to remain connected and a practical gateway for parents and teachers into talking about the qualities that make a good friend.

Dr Audrey Tang

Dr Audrey Tang

Dr Audrey Tang is a chartered psychologist, author, lecturer and resident TV psychologist. She is passionate about mindfulness and mental health, and her YouTube Wellbeing Series ‘The Wellness League’ works on building resilience for all ages.

She is the author of The Leader's Guide to Resilience due out in late 2020. (prev. The Leader's Guide to Mindfulness (Pearson & FT, 2018). Follow her on Twitter and Instagram





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